Archive for the 'Self Improvement' Category

Find a Mentor to Quicken Your Journey to Success

Monday, February 23rd, 2009

Finding a mentor is a great way to improve yourself. If you try to learn things by yourself, chance is you will spend a lot of time to learn many difficult lessons. On the other hand, if you have a mentor you will have someone who can guide you through the way. You don’t have to make so many mistakes and learn things the hard way. Since your mentor is someone who has gone through it, he can warn you of many pitfalls along the way.

Unfortunately, finding a good mentor is not easy. You need to be determined to find a good mentor. The first thing you need to do is being a good mentee. You should have the attitude of being willing to change and being open to suggestions. You should be diligent and eager to learn. If you have this kind of attitude, the chance is higher that a good mentor will want to spend his time on you.

Have an Evening Routine to Review Your Day

Saturday, February 21st, 2009

Besides having a morning routine, you can also improve your life by having an evening routine. While a morning routine helps you prepare for the day ahead, an evening routine helps you review your day so that you can do better tomorrow.

Just think about it. There are many things we experience each day but we barely take time to review them and learn from them. As a result, we don’t improve much from day to day. Imagine if you try extract lessons from your daily experiences. You will learn a lot and improve yourself much faster.

An evening routine can help you do that. Before you go to bed, have some time to think about your day. What things did you do good? Is there any mistake you made that you can learn from? Ask these questions to review your day and take lessons out of it. If you do this, you will be a better person tomorrow.

Have a Morning Routine to Prepare Your Day

Saturday, February 21st, 2009

What you do in the morning can greatly affect the rest of your day. If you start your day right, then you will have a great day. On the other hand, if you don’t start your day right, chance is your day won’t be good. So it’s essential that you start your day right.

One way to start your day right is by having a morning routine. A morning routine is a set of activities you do in the morning to prepare yourself for the day. For example, you can have exercise in the morning, read a good book, or meditate. Or perhaps you just want to walk outside and enjoy the fresh air of the morning. Choose the activities that excite you and prepare you for the day ahead.

Of course, the power of the morning routine is that you do it daily. Since you do it daily, you will also get the benefits daily. It can greatly improve your days and therefore your life.

Raise Your Standard to Move to Higher Level in Life

Friday, February 20th, 2009

One thing that determines how far you will go in life is your standard. If you have high standard, then it’s likely that you will go far in life. If you have low standard, then it’s unlikely that you will achieve anything significant in life. So, if you want to move to higher levels in life, it’s important that you raise your standard. Don’t stay in the comfort zone and use the same standard all the time. Raise it so that you can achieve higher things in life.

Of course, raising your standard is not easy. As I’ve mentioned above, it requires you to move out of your comfort zone. You need to do things beyond what you usually do. You need to work harder and smarter. But raising your standard is important because it determines the quality of your work. If you use higher standard in the process, the output will also have higher quality. To constantly grow, you need to also constantly raise your standard.

Be Dare to Take Risks to Improve Your Life

Friday, February 20th, 2009

Many people don’t live their best life because they don’t dare to take the risks to get there. Instead, they choose to stay within their comfort zone. But staying within your comfort zone means that you aren’t moving to the next level in your life. Staying within your comfort zone means that you are going nowhere higher in your life.

To move to the next level in your life, you should be dare to get out of your comfort zone and take the risks. Yes, it feels uncomfortable. But it’s necessary if you want to see something bigger to happen in your life.

The reason why many people don’t dare to take risks is because of fear. Fear of failure prevents them from taking the necessary risks to improve their life. Of course, you shouldn’t carelessly take any risks that you come across. You should always think before you act. But thinking too much with too little action won’t do you any good either. Be dare to take the risks to improve your life.

Mediocrity is the Enemy of Living Your Best Life

Friday, February 20th, 2009

Do you want to live your live to the fullest? Do you want to live your best life? If your answer is yes, there is one enemy you must be careful about: mediocrity. Mediocrity is perhaps one of the biggest obstacles people have to living to their fullest potential.

Mediocrity makes you satisfied with things that are just good and not best. Mediocrity makes you stop before you reach your best because you see that most people also stop at that level. Mediocrity makes you think that the journey to be the best is not worth the effort.

Be careful not to let mediocrity control your life. Don’t settle for something that is less than the best for your life. Be it in your career, family, or personal life, always strive to be the best that you can be. There is a big difference between the best people and the mediocre ones.

Have the Time to Play to Maintain Life Balance

Thursday, February 19th, 2009

Maintaining life balance requires you to balance work and play. You can’t just work all the time. You also need the time to play. While the time you use for playing may seem like waste of time, it actually helps you recover your mental energy. If you just work all the time then you may deplete your production capability. You need to refresh yourself so that you can work better and more productively.

Of course, you shouldn’t play excessively. Doing that will also disturb your life balance. Be careful to maintain the right balance between work and play. Whenever you feel tired in your work, you know that you need time to play. Don’t wait until you burn out because the recovery time will be longer.

How should we play? Well, the answer is different for everyone. Just think about activities you enjoy that help you have fun. Perhaps it’s going to the cinema, playing computer games, or doing exercise with friends. Do what work for you to help you refresh your mental energy and maintain life balance.

Self Motivation Is the Key to Learning Effectively

Thursday, February 19th, 2009

There is one important key to effective learning you must have: motivation. Self motivation can make the difference between success and failure in your learning experience. If you are motivated, the learning process will be enjoyable for you and you will be able to absorb the materials fast. On the other hand, if you aren’t motivated then learning will be a burden for you and it will take much more time to understand the materials.

I’m sure you can attest it in your own experience. Motivation is such a differentiating factor in learning. That’s why it’s important to ensure that you have the motivation to learn.

To find the motivation, you should look at the subject you learn in a positive way. How can the subject help you in the future? How can it help you succeed in your career and life? Don’t think about how boring or difficult it is. In addition, take the subject as a challenge that you need to overcome. Make it fun.

Find Out Your Learning Style to Learn Effectively

Thursday, February 19th, 2009

One aspect of self improvement is learning. You need to learn if you want to grow. But everyone has different learning style. If you don’t learn using a style that suits you then you might not be able to learn as fast as you should.

There are three learning styles: visual, auditory, and kinesthetic. Visual learners learn better by using visual inputs like pictures and video. Auditory learners learn better by using auditory inputs like speech and song. Kinesthetic learners learn better by doing activities that involve them.

What is your learning style? You can find out your learning style by using tests like the one in the book Accelerated Learning for the 21st Century. Identify your learning style and try to learn as much as possible using that style. By doing this, you will significantly boost your learning rate as you are absorbing information in the best way for you.

Find Your Dream By Finding What Matters to You

Wednesday, February 18th, 2009

You need to have a big dream if you are to achieve something significant in your life. But the problem is: how can we find our dream?

In my opinion, a good way to find your dream is by finding what matters to you. What is the thing you care so much about? What is the thing that makes your heart discontent? This is a problem in the world that matters to you. Everybody has different answer to this question and that’s fine. What you need to do is finding yours.

There is one more question that I think is key: what is the thing that makes you feel that you have made a difference in the world? The feeling of making real difference is often the sign of your dream. If you can come up with your answer to this question then the chance is good that you have figured out your dream in life.